My aunt's (boy) dog loves wearing ribbons in his ears. WHen he goes to the doggy palour, he refuses to let anyone take the ribbons out and they will sit in his glorious mane for weeks, even moths, at a time.
As a cashier myself, this is so true. I say no problem all the time, and no one else has a problem. You sound just as nice when you say "no problem" vs. "youre welcome" ; Agreed, I say "No problem" to people all the time.
Men have no idea what it takes to be a woman. To grin and bear it and persevere. The constant state of war, navigating the relentless obstacle course of testosterone and misogyny, where they think we are property to be owned and plowed.