Bokeh is the aesthetic out of focus area in a photo. this can be accomplished in the shoot, in post editing.one can also create it with paper cut outs over a lens. Bokeh should not distract from the subject.
Your heart doesnt listen to logic or to reason. It doesnt listen to other people. It doesnt care about what other people think. Your heart always tells the truth. Even though its on your left, its always right for you.