This may be one of the worst thinks to say to somebody who self harms. Stop telling them to 'stop' and instead, be supportive through their journey. I self harm and I would hate if someone said this to me
my mom commented on how i don't leave my room, how i've been so silent, and just basically that i'm obviously depressed and i just laughs at her and pretended it was nothing. i can't talk to my parents.