Teachers, School Counselors and Parents! One of our most important jobs is to teach young ones the "HOWS"; "how" to research, "how" to ask good questions. "how" to synthesize ideas, "how" to read & write, etc. But before they can get to the more academic "hows," they need skills to help them "how" to self-regulate, "how" to focus, "how" to ask for help, and "how" to be in a calm place to be able to relate in healthy ways with others.