After learning detachment and being able to forgive by looking at her not as my mother but as a person who had also experienced abuse from her narc mom and dad. I was able to understand her behavior and let go.
I have saved everything for my children to see one day, the truth. Parental alienation is psychological manipulation. You are brainwashing your child to believe something that is not true or is an exaggeration of the truth.
Parental alienator would rather see their child make bad choices and fail in life than have their child have a relationship with his step mom. You are an awful excuse for a parent that why he had always lives with his dad and I!
I couldn't have said it better myself! I've moved on and hopefully you all can do the same. Will things go back to how they were before? Um, no. Live your dreams and build your own lives. The future is exciting!