My wife is this to me. This is what made me want to be a better person voluntarily. The other two nagged, bitched, and I dreaded going home. My Sugrabritches has given me this gift, and I've become a person who will never push her to leave.
Do not pursue the past Do not lose yourself in the future. The past no longer is. The future has not yet come. Looking deeply at life as it is In the very here and now, The practitioner dwells In stability and freedom.