Using children as pawns in a game is sad.
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Children are not possessions. You don't "allow" the father/mother extra time. When you say things like that you imply that you think of your children as things, not humans.
Child support can be a load of crap when there's a loving father being alienated from his child so the mother can get her paycheck. You just wanted a sperm donor.