I've never lied and have always tried to be honest as far as who I am. I'm proud that I'm a 60 yr old grandma with a big heart and soul. I would never intentionally hurt anyone. If I have hurt anyone in any way, I apologize.
Because the way i see it is i would much rather be hurt by honesty. Have accurate information to be able to make my own decision. That way neither of us is wasting our time. Lying robs me of my right to decide for myself.