"I am the designer of my own life, of my catastrophe", she said, "not you". He gave her a smile. "Of course I am. I am your catastrophe"
you have the potential to do exactly what you want, if others around you feel uncomfortable, that’s not your problem, it is theirs. you need to do you. you need to focus on what is right for you and never ever settle or shrink because they can’t support you.