A man who is truly interested in a woman will find an endless number of reasons why he must see her. A man who is just playing around-or confused about his own feelings-will find an endless number of excuses why he didn't show up. --Charles J.
This isn't meaning material things, it means 'real' things needed for a loving, treasured and respectful relationship. Deeds, qualities, thoughts and characteristics of a decent and mature man who has a loving and good heart.